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Littlemiss
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Location: Georgia
Occupation: Social Worker
Age: 30
Member Since: July 30, 2005
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ok, where to begin..i have liked a guy for 2 years now..kinda on and off because my friends have tried to convince me that i dont like him anymore, but i end up liking him again b/c he's so funny...he makes me laugh...and fun to be around and hott.lol well anyways, im 15 and never had a bf and hes almost 16, but in the grade above me. i can never stop thinking about him and how much we have in common and just him in general :-)... i used to flirt w/ him a certain kinda way and ive noticed that hes doing the same stuff to me as i did to him, and im catching glances from him (but that could mean nothing).. I just really want to tell him so bad that i like him and i have for 2 years but i dont want it to ruin our friendship that has somewhat built up over the years. i really want to kno if he likes me back but..i dont kno.... If we ever got together i dont kno if i would fit in w/ his other friends, i mean i kno his friends, but i dont think i would belong. Please tell me what i can do! Thanks! (link)
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SSounds like you have the opportunity to have the best of both worlds....a boyfriend and a best friend. I would like to see it go that way for you. You know the secret to excellent relationships are being good friends first because you learn who the person is, the good and the bad, you yourself start to adapt to his mood swings and his habits. Knowing all that you have the power to make a choice to date this guy who makes you feel like your on top of the world. if your into poetry, write him a poem to let him know what your feeling. if your feelings for him are as strong as you say they are, they(your feelings) are already being showed to him and if you guys are around his friends, I'm sure they're seeing them come out as well. First of all your trying to date this guy, not his friends...true their acceptance is very important to you, but who care, your not trying to impress them, your trying to win the heart of the man you like. So babygirl, go for it, write a poem, sing him a song, if you want, make a cd of love songs leading up to your feelings. If this guys is as smart as you think he is, he's gonna get the hint and let him do the rest. If all else fells, buy a new outfit, fix up your hair, and throw yourself at him.
good luck to you.
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Thanks..hopefully that will really help!
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