Member Since: November 26, 2004
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Alright, I'm 16 and I have been dating my bf for about 2 and 1/2 weeks. Everything has been going pretty good. I feel like I've known him forever and we are falling head over heels for eachother. His family loves me and my family loves him. It's been perfect. But it seems that everytime we hang out little things bug me about him. Like his friends for example. Most of them play girls and he acts a little different around me when they are with him. Another thing I don't care for is that he can be pretty insensitive about my feelings and is pushy about things. He says and does things and doesn't think about how it might be taken the wrong way. Like yesterday my twin sister pissed him off so he kiddingly yelled at her and then when she said a sarcastic comment back he went over to her, turned her over, and started punching and slapping her ass real hard. And I found it extremely weird and inappropriate because whenever I think of someone grabbing, slapping, or punching someones ass its usually someone they are into, because he does the same thing when we play fight. So it totally disgusted and pissed me off. When he did that it made me offended and mad. My last bf would walk by girls at the mall when I was with him and smack their ass but I never said anything about how it annoyed and upset me because I figured that if I let out how I felt that it might screw things up. Even today we got in a sort of fight over the way things were going between us. As in how fast we were moving physically. It is always me who intiates these small skirmishes and that's what worries me. Most of the issues I have with him happen because I have been through alot of shit with guys in the past and I try to protect myself by not putting up with shit. I just don't want to be the person that fights about shit all the time and feels like an overreacter. But I know that if I keep things to myself that it will end up building up and building up and the issues will never get solved. So is there any way that I can relieve these issues without feeling like I might be causing my relationship to self-destruct? (link)
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your not comfortable with him. you are just NOT. that's not good AT ALL. you need to DEFINATLY get him straight he should never touch another girl, especially your twin sister! c'mon girl, you can't be that dumb!
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Rating: 5
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Thanks a ton! I totally flipped when he did that. He went over to me to kiss me and I shoved him away and said, "Do't fucking touch me!" He's like, "Are you pissed at me?" As if he has no idea why I'd be upset and then I got up and walked off with him chasing after me. We cleared that issue up but after that happened it really creeped me out and made me not want to trust him much. So I'll see how things go. Because if he hits on my OWN sister while I'm there, what will he be doing when I'm NOT around?
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