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O.K. I am 13/f and my mom hooked me up with this REALLY hot 16 year old guy named Wesley about 2 weeks before my birthday. We met while my mom's employee brought him to the store that my mom works at. About 2 days later, we were going to a restaurant and we found out that coincidentally, they were headed to the same place. So we ended up eating TOGETHER! Me and Wesley talked about EVERYTHING. I like him and I could TELL he liked me. Well, the day of my birthday, someone planned a barbeque thing for cancer and Wesley came. He told me happy birthday and stuff. Well, after the barbeque thing, we went to the movies. I invited 9 people but barely ANYBODY came except my best friend Becka, and of course Wesley came too. Well, before the movie, I was throwing popcorn in his mouth and he was throwing it in my mouth and it was the FUNNEST time. We were seeing the "Ring 2". When the movie started, we were being really loud and having a REALLY great time. We ended up holding hands. He put his arm around me in the car but what bothered me the most was that he was ALSO putting his arm around Becka, my best friend. I was too bothered but I scooted closer to him so he would know that I like him more than she does. He held my hand until we got to his house. When we got there, we got out and went in and took a look around. Then, we went outside and Wesley picked up Becka and ran around with her. He did the same to me.

A month ago my mom found out something about him that really made me upset. She found out that he had sex with a 47 year old woman. She was really fat and short, too.



I cried because I thought he really liked me. Hoe can I get over him? I miss him but I hate him. I hate him but I love him because he did that to me! Please help!

I'm depressed! What can I do? (link)
ok well first dont ever date a guy that much older than you..hes ateenager guy and all teen boys want is sex.. so the only reason that he was dating you was cuz he wanted to get in your pants and thats soo gross if he had sex with a person like twice his age and if he realy liked you he wouldnt have flirted with your best friend. i know how it feels when you can hate a guy but still be upsessed with him.. what you need to do is find a guy much better than him and not so much older than you maybe like a year older but no more cuz its sluty to do that. when you find a better guy you wont miss him and you shouldnt your just hurt by him and you cant let a guy do that to you. find a better guy and youll feel better.


Rating: 5
Thanks... I think... I never thought I was a slut... after all, that WAS my FIRST BOYFRIEND!




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