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ok. heres the thing: guys have always been my best friends. id actually rather have guy friends then girls because guys dont gossip and dont start drama. well ever since i got a boyfriend hes been getting on me for flirting with other guys. BUT I DONT FLIRT WITH THEM ITS JUST THAT THERE MY BFF's AND I JOKE AROUND WITH HIM. how can i get my boyfriend to understand that im not flirting they're just my friends. i've tried telling him that and i've tried to stop hanigng out with the guys as much but nothing seems to work. HELP PLEASE. ill rate you high!! (link)
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I'm the same way, just inverse (I'm a guy, most of my friends are gals). The deal is, you are flirting with them, just not with any kind of intentions beyond just having fun.
See, with me, I flirt with my friends, but just as friends. When I have a gf, I still flirt with them, just less. And I don't mean anything by it, really, just having fun. I can do this because I know where I stand with them. Note though that I don't flirt with people who like me unless I like them as well.
If you agree with what I've said, I think you should tell your bf that you realize that are actually flirting with them, just that you didn't realize it was flirting because you don't mean anything by it, that's just how you are with your friends.
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