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Hey ya'll!!! I'm from Tennessee, I'm 15 nd in 10th grade.... I'm considered the "Dr. Phil" of many of the groups I'm in and so when one of my friends introduced me to this, I decided to join.... I'm a strong Christian, recently saved & baptised and I sometimes use God in my answers so if you're offended by that, too bad (I don't say sry for that).... Ask me w/e and I'll try to answer it to the best of my ability... If, for w/e reason, you don't wanna ask me somethin on my board but still wanna ask me it, IM me on whichever IM service you have and I'll get back to you.... Peace ya'll and Good Luck with whateva... ~Cory~

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alright, i HATE my church. there is this girl rachel who is like...really mean to me. she even locked me in a suply closet once. i want to go to a diffrent chruch. every time i tell my mom that rachel is mean she just says i need to have a better attitude. rachel even told everybody that i was a slut. so now no one likes me. how do i tell my mom i want to go to another church?

First thing you need to do is tell your mom EVERYTHING that Rachel is doing to you. And let her know ALL that you need to, including what's on here. Then tell your youth pastor and/or pastor. Let them know it all too. Then, I know that this is hard and it's going to suck like a mug but.... SCREW THEM ALL!!! Focus on God, that's why you're in church in the first part ain't it? Sit back, relax, and laugh in their faces. If they lay their hands on you, turn around and twist their arms into such a lock you and them will think it's about to snap. Or just slap it away and walk off. If you need to, leave the room. And in the process, like if it's during a sermon or something, really walk out. If it gets the pastor's attention, it'll do more, better. But like I was saying, screw 'em. And their words. And their thoughts. And their opinions. And their cliques. Don't worry about them. In fact, LAUGH AT THE FACT THAT THEY DON'T HAVE ENOUGH OF A LIFE TO LAY OFF YOU! Trust me, it's fun, funny, and it gets their attention. When you become no fun to pick on, they stop. But if they worsen, make a statement, and I mean that seriously. Yeah, just focus and the sermons and focus on God. Take worship to the next level and the extreme. I come from an Assembly of God church and a punk background so that means the jumping and the fun stuff. But if that just means closing your eyes and raising your hands, do it. During prayer, lean over in your chair and close your eyes. When you focus on Him and put all your problems on Him, He will take care of you. But first, you must trust Him with all your heart. Good Luck, Hope I Helped.

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