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So I'm heading out on a family vacation in a little while. There's someone where we're going who, well, my g/f a few years back cheated on me with this guy across the hall from where I was sleeping (and the week afterwards) at a mini HS reunion with a bunch of friends. In other words, he stabbed me in the back to get laid.
Now, I'm not exactly afraid of seeing him... though I'm not sure how it would turn out if we did come into contact. Anyway, he's the kind of person who (at least 3 years ago) would have the attitude that he did nothing wrong and it's my fault. I haven't exactly talked to him since then, but I just wanna hear some people's thoughts on how you would react to different situations (my co-workers tell me to go sleep with his gf if he has one, but I'm just not interested in something like that). Part of me want to utterly destroy him, part of me wants him to apologize so this isn't between us anymore.
The other thing is, even though it's been over 3 years, part of me misses her, even to the point where I tried contacting her (didn't work). It's not like I want to get back with her, I just want to, I dunno, try to be friends or something. Any thoughts on that?
(Note: rude responses accepted - they're funny. Lame "I don't know but I hope it goes well good luck" responses are a waste of time and bandwidth.) (link)
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okay. closure. you need closure both with the girl and the guy. now it may be hard to talk to the guy without spitting on him or something, but do you best to be realy polite. As for the girl, just see how shes doing, whether or not you bring up the incedent is up to you, but i suggest not unless she does. Just talk to them, get all your questions out, and everyhing you need to say out. closur, my friend, is what you seem to need. i mean im here if you need nething else, i mean something similar happened to me only i didnt know the guy. so just ask me nething if you need it because i feel you.
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