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"People who ask our advice almost never take it. Yet we should never refuse to give it, upon request, for it often helps us see our own way more clearly."
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ok here is the thing....
i went to my boyfriends house the other night and did somethings i have never done before and then he went and told his sister(my best friend) and then broke up with me....
what can i do to feel better about this and to get him not to be mad at me and to keep him talkin to me.....
i really like this guy alot........
so dont tell me to quit talkin to him
please and thank you.....
~kashia
:( i wish i could die
Since your ex is your best friend's brother, this certainly puts you in a difficult position. There's really nothing you can do to make yourself "feel better," but to cherish what you two had together and remember the good times. I know it sounds cliche, but you can't always dwell in the past. If you're not sure EXACTLY why he broke up with you, ask him. If you're not up for it, wait for a while to let him settle down and cool off. If he agrees to "start over," then you two can be friends, and someday build something more than that. If you decide to confront him now and he tells you to back off or that he needs more space, then do so... You don't want to seem too desperate. I'm assuming that you trust him since you like him so much, so trust that the decision he made to break up had some good in it after all. In these cases, you just need to trust your instincts. If you see him on the streets and your conscience tells you not to chase after him, then don't. If you're at a party with him and something tells you to start a casual conversation, then go ahead. You can't hold back with something if you know you're going to regret it. Then again, don't do something dumb that might ruin the appreciation that he possibly has for you. I hoped I help a little, sorry if this wasn't what you were looking for. If he can't see how hard you're trying to make this work, it's his loss. You have nothing to be guilty about. Good luck!
(Rating: 5) u were alot of help
~kashia