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My friend lets call her july she can be really annoying sometimes and she is really really really reallly really really lazy and slow we have only know eachother for like 1 year she drives me crazy now and has to know everything about my family she tells my mom everything and i hate it i want to tell her but she never listens! What should i do?

First of all, you have to tell her how you really feel. If she constantly reports to your mom every single thing you do, let her know that she's invading your privacy and you need space. If she doesn't listen, you have to MAKE her listen. Be assertive, but not too aggressive. Tell her that she needs to respect what you have to say, or you won't be able to respect her. Also, you have to find out exactly why she does what she does. Try asking things like, "How would you feel if I told your family everything?" If you confront her and she refuses to cooperate, then there's really nothing you can do about it. I'm sorry if my answer wasn't what you were looking for. Good luck!

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