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Location: East Texas
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Age: 19
Member Since: July 15, 2005
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Last Update: August 11, 2005
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ok... when ever i go on vacations i meet/see really cute guys but im really shy so we barely talk. Then the day to leave comes and i get all emotional about it and i barely even know them. But im really hard on myself over it and i get mad that i didnt get any contact information and stuff. So how do i over come the shyness and get the courage to go talk to them more??? (link)
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I know what you mean, I'm very shy too. One, don't get mad at yourself, you need to realize that you are on vacation so you will probably never see these people again. It is a normal thing to meet people on vacation, but usually you don't worry about ever seeing them again. You might try flirting a little or something, when the guy looks at you wink at him or smile or something that makes him think he has a chance at getting to talk to you. Most guys will catch onto this and they will initiate the conversation. If you have to start the conversation, just use small talk (what's your name, where you're from, etc.). Be sure in the end, if you feel you want to stay in contact, just ask for their e-mail or number, but the number thing might not be a good choice since you're on vacation and in order to call it will cost a lot due to long distance. Try getting their online name or their e-mail, it's just easier. Girls usually have control of what happens, so use that power to your advantage.
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