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Q: okay, so im 13. and i weight a lot. i mean like a lot. but i dont look like it. i am kind of chubb-ish though. ive never had a boyfriend. and i dont really want one. i just want to find one that will treat me right from the start and one that truely likes me. i just dont feel like that will ever happen. & i also want guys to just see me as more than a friend. i dont know. i guess i just want guys to like me for who i am. & thats hard at my school. especially since its 8th grade and all the guys are into sluts. please help me!! i need it!

♥You just answered your own question:

"Its 8th grade and all the guys are into sluts"

It's completley thoroughly totally true. Right now guys are just coming into puberty, and want the farthest thing from a real relationship. They go for the slutty girls because they want to experiment. In a few years, some (yes, only some) will grow out of this. You just have to wait it out, you'll eventually find someone who cares about you and thinks your beautiful the way you are and is ready for a relationship like you are. It could be this year, next year, etc. Try dating outside of your school.

Rating: 5

thanks a lot. that really helped me.

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