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I'm 16 and I have recently gotten mixed up in the dating scene again. I've been staying single for a few months to try and sort out my priorities so that the next time I decide to start dating again I will end up with a guy that will treat me right. Well that day has come but its certainly not as easy as I thought it would be thats for sure! One guy I've known since I was a little kid, my mom knows his parents and she likes the idea of me dating him. Plus we've liked eachother for over two years and have both are single now. We've talked on the phone alot and hung out almost every other day. We've kissed and we have so much in common and he is really sweet. But some things about him I'm unsure of. I don't trust him that easily because some things he says seem like lines and he hasn't ever brought up the subject of us dating or anything so I'm not sure if he just wants to mess around, cuz I'm not up for that. The other guy I've met a few days ago. He just recently moved here and the minute our eyes met we clicked. We have alot of things in common, his parents already met me and love me, my mom knows about him and is willing to give him a chance, and we've already talked of dating and he's all up for it and so now it is my desicion. And there lies the problem. I like both guys and I have major chemistry with both. My mom wouldn't mind me dating either and now I'm stuck in a tricky situation. The first guy is from my school and I really want to give him a chance cuz I like him and if I turn him down and date the other guy he might feel played. And visa versa. Please help me. My heart is torn between these two guys and I have no idea which way to go!
~Hopelessly Torn Apart (link)
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i would first date the one with the clicky eyes..go with him first, cause with the other one, if your familie's are close you don't want it to be a bad break-up and it be okward for the rest of your life. they might feel played but..just let the other one know that you like them but...you think you can something better than a fling.
lemme know how it goes
all the best
--m
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Thanks with the advice. You were right on about the first guy. He was just acting like he wanted a fling and too much issues with our parents knowing eachother. I'm dating the second guy right now and it has been amazing. I'm so comfortable with him and my mom loves him. Your advice really helped. Thanks so much!
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