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Hi. I'm IceAngel13, though you can call me Megan (my name) if you want. I like to make graphics like my picture. I write stories, poetry and lyrics and I love music, and love to sing. I love to give advice and I think I'm pretty good about it. I try to be as nice as I can when giving advice and try not to judge people. Feel free to ask me about anything, including relationships. :)

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ok i am in love with a guy that is black... i honestly dont care about what color his skin is but my parents DO! they dont want me to go out wit a black guy... they can be really messed up like that and i have tryed talking to them about and they always said NO! and i always get mad about it... me and this guy are going out but my mom only knows we are friend but i still cant stand the fact she can be so racest..i love this guy i am wit he respects me and never would make me do soemthing i dont want to do..like yesterday we were at the mall and she say a black guy wit a whtie girl and she was like "omg look stephanie look how pretty that girl is with that black.. i can believe people can do that" i got really mad i thought to myself what if she say me like that... i need some advice on what to do i am 14/f and my bf is a 15/m.. someone please help me!!

I would sit down with your parents and tell them what you just told us, that no matter what skin color you are, you are still a human being and skin color doesn't make a difference in any of their qualities. Tell them that this guy means a lot to you and that he's unbelievably nice to you and really cares about you. Tell that they should be more conserned with if he treats you with respectr or not, not the color of their skin, because hate to break it to them (actually love to) but white guys can be complete jerks and treat you with no respect. Stay big on the respect thing. And if it still doesn't work out, then I would date him anyway (this might be just the rebel comming out in me, but), you're parents shouldn't controll all of your choices, especialy ones that they are biast about. I personally am EXTREAMLY AGAINST racism, so I understand where you're comming from. So that's my advice, hope I helped. And I hope everything works out, because racism is a serious thing. And I hope they understand and allow you to date this guy. Best of luck!!! :)
~IceAngel13

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(Rating: 5) ok i will talk them again thanks soo much
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