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Okay so i`m 17 and i was goin out with this 20 yr old boy for about 7 months..but we've been hookin up for almost a year. Then he cheated on me with his ex. so we seperated. Lets pretend this boys name is Bob. So while me and bob were broken up, we still talked and hooked up every once in a while. but not much. So i had a lot of free time for once. Durin the free time i met this other 20 yr old boy. he was so sweet and everything. so we started talkin. We`ll call this boy Joe. So later on, i come to find out that Bob and Joe are like worst enemies. they`ve been beefin` with eachother for YEARS! So then they find out about eachother, which isnt that big of a deal bc im not goin out with either one. but still they were mad and wanted to fight eachother. so Joe got locked up almost 2 weeks ago. And everyone wants me to help get him out. But i currently go out with Bob again, so he doesnt want me to. I mean some times i think i love bob, but i find myself constantly thinkin about Joe. and i miss him a lot. I dont know who would be a better choice for me? and i dont wanna make the wrong one.. I really need help. I dont wanna be lyin to them, so i just want one... plzzzz help .. thanxx
These are both thugs if they are always fighting and 'beefin' as you say and what's up with that? I mean you are desperately wanting a guy in jail? Come on - Bob already cheated on you and the other one is in jail - they probably just fought over you because of who the other guy was - not because of you. So let them both go and call it a day! You can do much better than that - I'm sure! I do wonder how you didn't know this guy was 'bob's worst enemy' and you two dated for 7 months...no mention of that huh? Well, what I can tell you is that the future with these two looks grim.
(Rating: 4) im not DESPERATELY wanting any one. im just sayin, i really like him, its not my fault he`s in jail, i cant just automatically stop likin him. and yeah i didnt know they were worst enemies, b/c i mean .. neither one of them like talk about eachother ... or ne thing like that. its just like one of those things, where u just dont like them and if u see them u deal with them. plus they dont even live in the same city ne more, so for awhile .. they didnt even worry about eachother, liek they forgot about eachother.. till like, they found out wat was goin on. ya know? but oh well...