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I'm not a very good kisser at all. On my last date, I could tell my boyfriend didn't want to say anything. I think it's because I'm not experienced enough to really know what I'm doing. Are there any tips (not just URLs that tell you the importance of good breath etc.) that anyone would like to share? Thanks so much!
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ispeakspanish is right - kisses without toungue can definately be the best.
I am making no assumptions about what you do or don't do, so if any suggestion doesn't apply to you, ignore it. Or laugh. Just because you can. Also, these suggestions are not for every kiss, just when they fit the right mood.
Don't lead into a kiss by planting you face into his - lead in slowly, keep your mouth pretty much closed for the kiss, and kiss slowly. Full, open-mouthed, deep frenching right off the bat is more for orgasms, passionate "I want you so bad right now", and "I just wanna make a scene" moments. Kissing with toungue is still good, it just should be led into by something not quite as intense.
If you feel him guiding your kissing, let him. You will need to pay attention to how he's kissing you, and you won't pick up on all the signals, but you'll learn them eventually.
Relax a bit. An uneasy/squeamish/uncertain kisser is a bad kisser. You need to be comfortable when you kiss.
Try a multitude of shorter kisses (as much as around 1.5 seconds) rather than one or a few long kisses.
And here's probably the one that will help you the most (without cheating), and the most important one... ask your b/f what he thinks would help and to give you tips. If he's an experienced kisser, he'll be able to tell you. If not then you two will have to figure it out together. Which can be a LOT of fun, mind you.
Really, the best way to learn how to kiss well is to find someone who kisses well and learn "lips-on" how.
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Wow, I wish I could rate you higher! You give AMAZING advice!
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