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my older sister is 15 and i am 13, and i can't stand her! like she just bugs the hell out of me. she tries to be like her "own person", she is obsessed with animals, mostly horses, and reading. but i am the exact opposite, i hate reading and i like partying, boys, music, and tennis. she is trying to act like me though. i mean she likes country music, and i like rap hip hop and r& b. now she is starting to like maroon 5 and stuff that i like it is pissing me off and its just cause she is trying to be cool because she knows she is really annoying. and my mom is making me spend the day with her at the pool tomorrow, which i really don't want to do because there are only 2 days until i go to camp and i would rather spend my time with my friends! how do i get out of it?!?! please help me!

How do you know that she's trying to be more like you? She might actually like maroon 5, did you ever consider that? Everyone 'grows up' at different stages, and you sound like you've got more mature way before her. I say let her get on with doing what she's doing, after all if she is pretending to like certain things to seem cool then she'll soon get fed up of it. And maybe when you go swimming, if you really can't stand to spend the whole day with her, why don't you suggest that you take a friend along and she does too? That way you can make your mum happy and get to see a friend too.

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(Rating: 2) u don't get it. i can't stand her because she insilts me and the stuff that i stand for, then later she tells everybody that she likes it. i can't stand this, and she also sucks up to my parents in order to get whatever she wants, and they completely favor her. believe me u would be bitter too
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