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Q: WEll me and my boy friend diego have been dating for almost 4 years now( im 17 he is 18) and well we both love each other. he even promised me many times the day i turn 18 he is proposing to me which happens to be in about 3 weeks. well his birthday was a couple of days ago (our birthdays arent that far apart) any ways well on his birth day him and his guy friends went to a club. there diego saw an old friend from when he lived in mexico. well they started talking and some how he got a hold of some drinks and he got really drunk and him and his friend Andrea went back to his house and had sex. i found this out through him only cause i got lucky with such an honest man. he said he was drunk and he saduced him. well i believe the seducing part because i had met her when we went to mexico so i could meet his family and she was all over him. well any ways im still really in love with him and hes the one and only person i have ever had sex wit and for me that means alot cause im am definantly not easy. i really love him. we talk were each others best friends and lovers and everything else. i am still going out with him but i dont knwo since he promised me when i trun 18 he is going to propose to me should i say yes our should i wait and see if this happens again cause im really confused and i dont know if i should say yess or iff i shouldd sayy lets wait a little while to see cause i have always thought im gona say yes. i dont knwo what imm gonna do
PLEASE HELP!!
~Princess Ava~
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the exact same thing happened to me (excpet the age and proposing) and pathetic enough.. im only 13. It's going to be a tough decision to make and no one on this website will be able to change your mind completely. What you need to do is sit down and think to yourself of * i know this sounds lame but:* the pro's and con's of the situation. What I did was I broke up with my boyfriend immeadeatly. But since your's might propose to you.. i dont know. All I can say to you is to stay positive but know that he is capable of breaking your heart. And know that it was him that went to the club, it was him who had the drinks, and it was him that had sex with another woman, just WEEKS before he proposed to you. But you also need to remember that this is the man you love and that loves you too. All I can say to you now, it good luck from the bottome of my heart. And i truely hope everything comes out alright. xO ali
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