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10 things about Samantha!
- i love to help people
- i love brian ♥ 9.22.05
- i loveee dorks =)
- diet coke is my drink
- i do majorettes
- i love tennis!
- one tree hill / cmm NUT.
- my birthday is july 17!
- i love my friends
- i loveee country music.. :)

10 things about Danielle!
- i love Eminem
- friends are my life
- i love ALL kinds of music
- i dance
- i love joe ♥ 9.30.05
- i love sporks =)
- the 0C is my favorite show
- i like to help people
- my room is purple
- * purple is not my favorite color ; pinks my favorite!

advice

Same poster as "Sordid Love Polygon."

I'm eighteen years old, female, and I was unpopular at my high school. Somehow, however, I ended up being friends with a lot of the football players. I got really close to one of them, Alan; he ended up becoming one of my best friends. He's the perfect man in every way--smart, funny, cute, nice--except that he's OBBSESSED with SEX.

Alan has a girlfriend, Bella. She's a nice girl, and I like her as a friend, but the two are toxic to one another. When they have problems, it's like all the life gets sucked out of him. They're really harmful to each other.

Even when they break up, he always has other girls in line... (Naomi, for example). He's got a reputation for being able to get anyone to sleep with him... sex is a huge part of his life.

Now that I've graduated, I find that I'm... in love with him. I think about him every day... When I’m not thinking about him, I’m thinking about these two characters from this game I like who are just like him and me. I really care about him... and I think he knows it, since I kissed him once. But he has a girlfriend. Even if he didn’t, I’m waiting until marriage to have sex, and I'm afraid he would convince me to do something I don't want to.

I know I can't be with Alan. I don't want to damage my friendship with him or Bella, and I know he’s not right for me. But I don't know what to do. These feelings I have for him are making it hard for me to deal with other guys, and just thinking about not seeing him every day in school is killing me. I guess what I want to know is, how do I get over a guy who doesn't like me anyway?

Samantha says ; He doesnt sound like the best person to be in love with. Especially if you are waiting until marriage.. I think that you should maybe TRY going out with him and wait for him to either say no or to ask you to do something and you to get upset so then you wont like him anymore. I dont know what i would really do but this sounds like something that could work :)

Danielle says ; Try to find someone new because it sounds like this guy has commitment problems.. and i would just keep your distance because it doesnt seem like this could be anything good.

hope this helps!

=) samantha + danielle

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(Rating: 3) All in all it's fairly good advice... However, it's not what I was asking for.
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