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I'm 13 and i wanna help you guys as much as i can please let me have your questions i hope i can help
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Same poster as "Sordid Love Polygon."

I'm eighteen years old, female, and I was unpopular at my high school. Somehow, however, I ended up being friends with a lot of the football players. I got really close to one of them, Alan; he ended up becoming one of my best friends. He's the perfect man in every way--smart, funny, cute, nice--except that he's OBBSESSED with SEX.

Alan has a girlfriend, Bella. She's a nice girl, and I like her as a friend, but the two are toxic to one another. When they have problems, it's like all the life gets sucked out of him. They're really harmful to each other.

Even when they break up, he always has other girls in line... (Naomi, for example). He's got a reputation for being able to get anyone to sleep with him... sex is a huge part of his life.

Now that I've graduated, I find that I'm... in love with him. I think about him every day... When I’m not thinking about him, I’m thinking about these two characters from this game I like who are just like him and me. I really care about him... and I think he knows it, since I kissed him once. But he has a girlfriend. Even if he didn’t, I’m waiting until marriage to have sex, and I'm afraid he would convince me to do something I don't want to.

I know I can't be with Alan. I don't want to damage my friendship with him or Bella, and I know he’s not right for me. But I don't know what to do. These feelings I have for him are making it hard for me to deal with other guys, and just thinking about not seeing him every day in school is killing me. I guess what I want to know is, how do I get over a guy who doesn't like me anyway? (link)
i know about this.a guy i liked siad we can't be together till we are older and this is what i told a friend of mine who is boy freind to my best freind qotue 'Nobody is going to control me just cuase they don't like me there are other guys out there. and one of them are bound to like me but he will have a place in my heart when no one has me but when i do a little place will be there who knows maybe in time he will need me but i have somebody better than him so like i said before and i will always say this no man will control me if he doesn't like me and one day in time a man that likes me we will meet in time and we will like each other than love will come no man will control me just cuase he doesn't like me.' i hoped i helped if i didn't sorry i wasted your time but i do hoped i helped you so what i am saying you might not get over him you might but just be careful don't wait for him to like you time doesn't stop for anyone so don't wait get out there but just in cause he likes you when you still like him keep a little space in your heart for him but don't keep it there forever keep it for awhile but you will have mimories in that space that is filled hoped i helped


Rating: 5
I had a lot of trouble understanding what you wrote, but your words ring true.




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