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I'm 14, and a sophmore. I will be 15 soon, I just have a late birthday. I've done stuff with guys like making out and all because all my boyfriends are always older than me. Like almost everyone in my grade has had sex, done drugs, drinks, stuff like that. Well I just got drunk for the first time the other night, and im still a virgin. Everyone is telling me I shouldnt still be a virgin. Like my sisters friend is 19 and he told me that its normal to lose it when your in highschool. I'm so scared to have sex though because what if it hurts, or I get pregnant, stuff like that ya know? I dont know anything about it either, well I do but I dont know any movements and stuff. Theres this guy whose 18 and I have dated him 2 times, we went to prom and everything and he is a really good friend, when I got drunk everyone told me I was saying that I think I love him. I didnt even know I did. We might get back together because he keeps telling everyone he likes me alot. He calls me and everything so yea. If we did go back out and dated for a long time, would it be alright to have sex? And no im not a geek or ugly or anything lol. Just scared of what's going to happen!
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You are still young, don't rush into LIFETIME expereiences that may affect the rest of your life. I am 15 and i have already promised my self to wait till marriage. A lot of guys(even though this sounds weird) will respect you for that fact that you remained to stay a virgin until marriage. It shows you have a lot of self control,respect for yourself, and that you are smart. WHO CARES IF EVERYONE in your school is having sex,drugs,alchol. They are going to regret it. As for you, don't start to mess up your future by drinking and getting drunk. As you said "I was saying I think I love him. I didn't even know I did", what if you did something you wouldn't do while you were sober. You would really regret it. And if your boyfriend or this guy that is 18 is wanting to have sex with you, that's stupid. Soon you'll he won't be a minor anymore and it'll be illegal. Trust me just wait...it's worth it.
Good Luck--hope i helped
*twizzLoR*
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