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Hi. I am a 31 year old life coach and professional writer and the mother of a beautiful 6 year old little boy. I believe in the kids and teens out there today and I want to be of service in any way I can. I know what it's like to be young and not want to talk to parents about problems. I specialize in relationships of all kinds and parenting. I also am very well versed in health and beauty. I will always respond with sincerity and to the best of my ability. I will always be honest, even if that means I may tell you something you don't want to hear but need to. I am all about inspiring the best from people I come in contact with so that's the approach I take with everyone.

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So theres this guy... he lives down the street from me. We're basically good for each other, I hear that a lot. He's a football player, I'm on the dance team, we always do the same things accidently, he's cute, I'm cute lol jk. Anyways he's come over a few nights, snuck out on a couple of them and we've kissed and cuddled and I loved it. We've never gone farther than that because I'm scared of getting attatched and hurt. He knows I like him, but I'm not sure he's feels the same. I don't want to be used.. It has happened too much to me (my boobs are big... naturally! and guys like them.. but i hate em). Once I start trusting him, it seems like he kind of pulls away. Ive talked to him about it but he never really says exactly he likes me or he doesnt. I think which him being popular he doesnt want to be a really sweet guy or anything around his friends.. I understand that though. It's fine. But it seems like he's only "with me" when it's good for him. When he's at a party with me or when he's at his house and calls me. But if I want to hang out.. its a bit different. He's not as into me as I'm into him. But I dont want to be into him. I dont want to get hurt :( I'm a hopeless romantic tho. If he did something sweet to show that he really liked me, i'd be his, no questions asked. I'm confused! please help

First of all, don't hate your boobs or any other part of your body. I had the same problem growing up - don't let it get to you honey. There are girls out there who would pay for them!!! On to the guy thing. Well, if it's working the way it is then do you really need him to say it? It's obvious he likes you. People make to much of this "I don't want him to use me" thing. Let it go. Have fun with him as long as it's fun for you and let the rest take it's course. Someone can only use you if you are looking for something in return for something you do. If you go into the situation saying, 'Okay, I'm gonna have fun right now and when that stops working for me I'll have fun somewhere else'. Don't make it too dramatic. That is part of the problem. Don't look for him to give you the same signs that he likes you as you give him. Just be laid back and carefree. Hang with the girls and let him call you for a while. If you run into him - hang out - but if you are came with other people then don't just leave them to be with him. Show him you are independant and have a life - he can either get right or get 'left' =)

By the way, don't make excuses for why he's not sweet - like because he's popular. He's either kind to you or he's not and if he's not - I don't care how popular he is, ditch him!!!

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(Rating: 5) thanks sooo much!! you are so right
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