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Hi. I am a 31 year old life coach and professional writer and the mother of a beautiful 6 year old little boy. I believe in the kids and teens out there today and I want to be of service in any way I can. I know what it's like to be young and not want to talk to parents about problems. I specialize in relationships of all kinds and parenting. I also am very well versed in health and beauty. I will always respond with sincerity and to the best of my ability. I will always be honest, even if that means I may tell you something you don't want to hear but need to. I am all about inspiring the best from people I come in contact with so that's the approach I take with everyone.
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OK, brace your self, a while ago this guy trent ased me out and he was 2 years older. I said know cus i just got out of a bad relation ship. Now hes reallllly good friends with one of my good friends James. James is going out with alexa and trent is going out with alexas friend ashlyn. well me ash and alexa are all 14 ( im not good friends woth them) and james and trent just turned 16. WELL ANY WAY... I have these to other real good friends Morie (girl) and briana. and one day we (james trent bri morie me) were all hangin out at night and out of absoluty no where briana goes Oh My Gosh I LIKE TRENT!!! ...ALOT!!!! A WHOLE LOT!!!!! .. I WANT TO MAKE OUT WITH HIM!!! and i was all confused , she suddenly likes this guy and just goes to atempt to make out with him (BTW bri just turned 13 last week) Well after she triend to and failed at making out with him she told MOrie to do it. Morie said she didnt want to chus this was the first night she ever met him. well bri said if she didnt so wuold kill herself ( she "cuts") so morie talked to trent about it ( mo turned 12 last month) and they went in the back and made out. well over the night trent began to really like her. They made out like 5 time and he followed her EVERY WHERE!! and they flirted alll night. SO me and james were like "trent arnt you going out with ashlyn???" He said " im taking a break" But later ashlyn called james saying "trent isnt anserwing his fone if u see him tell him to call." James asked if they were still going out and ashlyn said yes. So trent is baisicly cheating on her with morie, but Mo and trent arnt actually going out cus mo likes his little brother(14) who likes Alexas cusin mandy and also because trent is almost 5 years older then morie. And latly he is flirting a lot with me to and i keep telling him hes taken and i dont mess with taken guys. but i do like him a little. And I am just soooo lost! what do i do, what should MO do, Should we tell aslyn, or what should we tell trent... or just help!!
sorry its so long. If you actually read this and anserwed you get an auto 5 ( unless your response just SUCKED!)
That just sounds like a totally tangled web that has been woven. I would say, if you are not in the middle of it - don't put yourself there! The problem is that if you tell then people will get hurt and mad. I would stay way out of it! If this guy likes you and he has a girlfriend, tell him that if he's serious about it - to let you know when he breaks up with his girl and if you are available then you guys can hook up. Don't be 'the other girl' especially knowing that he has a girl. As for MO - well she's already into him now so let her see where it goes. I would recommend the same thing though - tell trent to dump the girl or leave MO alone - but remember - that is for MO to do - you keep to the side. The less you can be in the drama - the better. And tell your friend who cuts herself to get some help. That is just awful and I hate to hear that because life does not have to be so bad that you cut yourself. She should try to figure out what is going on in her life and get it straitened out before she grows up with lots of scars and regrets it!!!
Hope any or all of it helped!
Rebecca
(Rating: 5) Thank you much. I try to stay out of it but they pull me in like trant tries to flirt and im like dood, no. But tanks alot and the cutter is just extremly dramatic.