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Hi. I am a 31 year old life coach and professional writer and the mother of a beautiful 6 year old little boy. I believe in the kids and teens out there today and I want to be of service in any way I can. I know what it's like to be young and not want to talk to parents about problems. I specialize in relationships of all kinds and parenting. I also am very well versed in health and beauty. I will always respond with sincerity and to the best of my ability. I will always be honest, even if that means I may tell you something you don't want to hear but need to. I am all about inspiring the best from people I come in contact with so that's the approach I take with everyone.

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ok well im 14 and ive been going out with my b/f 9 months today. during the school year id see him every day and we would allways talk alot so we rarely talked on the phone and when we did we talked form like 8 till 2 in the morning...he liked me for allmost a year before me and him started going out and everyone says how cute we are and everything, my birthday was recently and he gave this bear that when u scweze it it says i love you and we went out to dinner, i ran out of room in my year book this year so me and him decided we would write each other letters insted and the one he wrote me was soo cute i wanted to cry i could tell that it came from his heart after i read it i thought that this summer would be amazing but now that its summer it makes me soo sad b/c i never see him as much as im use to and im the one who useally calls him and i dont useally do it alot b/c i dont want to be the girl who allways calls boys or anyoingg idk what to do like when ever i talk to him and im with him he acts like he loves me but i dont know what to do it makes me soo sad
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First of all, do his friends have girlfriends? That could definately be part of the problem if they don't because they want guy time - and probably give him a hard time about it. AT that age he is still fitting in with the guys and doesn't wanna look like a puppy dog. Why he's not calling is a mystery I guess... If it were me, I would just do my thing with the girls and let him call. If he knows you will always call then he doesn't have to - turn the tables and bring the ball back in your court. If you didn't talk on the phone before then it does stand to reason that you wouldn't much now. Do you live close to him? Because if you don't and he has a friend around the corner then it may be easier to hang around with him... Don't worry yourself too much and definately do not be the girl always calling - it does take on a needy look after a while - especially if he's not calling back. I say hang with the girls - go to the mall - talk to people - get out more and just have fun. He'll be back quicker if you are not just sitting around waiting on him!!!

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