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Hey Im Nicole Im 14 years old..Im Currently Living in Ludlow Massachusetts ..Hmm its a pretty boring place here but theres alot of great shopping places here which is a good thing cuz i love love love loveee shopping :) ..Umm i have dark brown hair with some Carmel Highlights at the top..Im 5"3 I Have Greenish Brown Eyes..and a great smile hehe :) ah i have 5 pierceings 2 holes in each ear and my Cartalige..I really want my belly button pierced..itss sooo cute..:D but anyway Im always usally in a good mood..so if you need some advice im here and im usally fast at giving it ..And Oh if you dont have the time to post advice here you can always Instant Message me on my Screename for some really quick advice instead of waiting.. My Screename Is ..
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My dad died when I was ten and I acted wierd. I didn't cry very much at all. I only cried once or twice. Now I'm 13 and I don't cry about it still. It makes me feel guilty, and I don't know why I can't cry. It also makes me mad because everybody thinks I'm over it, but I'm really not. The last time I cryed about it was last night. But the wierd thing is, is about a month ago I whent to these family riunons, and just started crying for no reason. So here is my question: Am I a freak because I don't cry, and how can I make it so that I don't have the sudden outbursts? Can you help?

NO !! your not a freak for not crying ..maybe your just a strong person about loosing a parent and doesnt always wanna be depressed by crying ..
and that you know hes in a better place now.. and you can make it without the outburts by telling yourself that your strong about everything and that if you cry you'll just be depressed and you'lll never get better ..im not saying you should hide your emotions about your dad because if you keep your emotions inside it will just build up inside you and come out into anger ..just try and keep it strong ..and a couple crys here and there wont hurt just dont try to do so much where you get sick ...

I really hope ive help you ..im really sorryy about your dad get better hun

Tell me how it goes :)
-Nicole

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(Rating: 5) I'm glad that you are trying to help, but it just seems to get worse every day. You will be hearin from me later.
peace out! :(

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