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Q: okay soo i have a boyfriend...before i even met my boyfriend i really liked this other guy and we havnt talked since school was out and now we talk every nigght and i think im starting to fall for him again he flirts with me back which makes me want him more i dont know what he thinks about me but my friends think i have a chance with him i really dont wanna do anything because i already have a boyfriend...its just soo tempeing to like just let him know how i feel cause im that kinda person that just cant keep anything in i like, speak out i dont know how much longer i can keep this in! i really like him but i cant! please help me!
It certainly seems that you totally dig this guy. The problem is you have a boyfriend. WNo doubtedly he'll be upset when he hears you like another guy, but these things happen. Feelings come so fast, it stands to reason they can go away as fast, especially at a young age. Don't feel guilty or anything that you like another guy.

As for telling this guy, just be straight and frank with him. Don't "beat around the bush". Tell him that you really enjoy talking to him and that you think you may have feelings for him. Tell him that if they aren't returned, you don't want to let it ruin the friendship. It definitley seems that he likes you -- so you should totally explain to him how you feel. If you feel confident about telling him, then just do it. You should never miss a chance to tell someone how you feel.

Good luck.

aw thanx soo much!

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