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Hi. I am a 31 year old life coach and professional writer and the mother of a beautiful 6 year old little boy. I believe in the kids and teens out there today and I want to be of service in any way I can. I know what it's like to be young and not want to talk to parents about problems. I specialize in relationships of all kinds and parenting. I also am very well versed in health and beauty. I will always respond with sincerity and to the best of my ability. I will always be honest, even if that means I may tell you something you don't want to hear but need to. I am all about inspiring the best from people I come in contact with so that's the approach I take with everyone.

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ok I know I know I am totally screwed probably and I know I messed up big time but please dont tell me that over and ove...but ok I was raped last week and I didnt tell anyone yet...I cant im scared i dont now why but i feel like its my fault cuz it was my bf and Im the one who went out with him...so ya i know im screwed cuz the evidence is probably gone but I really need help on how to tell someone so thats why I came here..plz help!!
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The last thing you need to hear is you screwed up - cuz you didn't. When something like that happens it sometimes take a while to process that it was actually raped because when it's not all violent and crazy and then with someone you know - you start to question yourself. Well, don't go there - you know what happened and that's all that mattered. Maybe you can't talk to your mom -call the rape crisis center. Getting raped is a very traumatic thing that needs to be addressed. Even though you don't have the evidence, you do know who did it. Have you talked to him since? I think you need to call and talk to someone or tell your parents. They won't be mad - they will still love you and want to help. You need all the support you can get right now. Let it out honey, tell someone!!

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