Member Since: June 21, 2005
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Last Update: August 12, 2005
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alright i have 2 best friends ( girls )and i love them with all of my heart. now i am currently goin out with a guy but he isnt what i want i mean he is nice and all but i just dont feel the connection but anyway there is another guy i am crazy about but i have two problems with being with him #1. 7 months ago one of my bestfriends went out with him for 3 months and they broke up for a stupid reason she is still in love with him and a month ago she went " crazy " she cut her self and they were bad she went to a place to get help and she has been doin great but she is still deeply in love with him.. now problem #2. my other bestfriend is currently goin out with this guy and other bestfriend is okay about it but then she tells me constantly she hates it and she gets sooo upset over it now we have all been hanging out a lot together and the other day my one bestfriend that is goin out with this guy wasnt there it was just my other best friend my boyfriend this wonderful guy and another one of my friends.. we were at one of my friends house and me and the guy i am crazy about were upstairs alone and we were just hanging out and listening to music and all of a suddenn he kissed me i was like wow and my mind went blank now this was just a peck on the lips but it was the greatest thing in the whole entire world ahh im so confused i just wanna either be with him or just let it go like nothing happened but that would be hard because he is on my mind like all the time so please help me im stressing over this like crazy *sigh*
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Don't even touch it with a 10 foot pole. Going out with him, I mean.
If it's meant to happen, it will happen, but your best friend has a thing for him, and if you go after him, it will be like betraying her.
It also sounds like the situation is far more complicated than it needs to be, so the farther you stay away from it, the less confused and stressed you will be.
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thanks and i also want to add that its hard to stay away because we all are bestfriends our whole crew is just together everyday so its hard but i have good news tonight i met an incredible guy and he totally took the guy i was crushing on right off of my mind!! so thank you for your advice
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