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Hey ya'll. My name is Candace..but most people call me Candy. I live in Dallas..but am going to UCLA in the fall :)! Now..some of the advice I give may seem harsh, but believe me, its just exaclty what most of you need to hear. Oh. And another thing..I am completely open to you guys sending me questions personally, but the stupid ones have to stop. I will no longer answer back to the ones bitching me around! Okay..thank!

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this year i have lost alot of friends for things that are confusing me. 1) i lost 2 frinds because of the way i eat (i put ketchup on chick'n) and because they said i talked alot about my family.
2) i lost a friend because her friend walked all over me and she never did anything to stop her/because she keept secrets from me about cutting herself but told everyone else and mad them promise not to tell me even though i was her best friend(at least thats what she said) 3) i lost 2 friends because of something someone else did! they blamed me even though i appologized for what happened. isnt that alot of friends to lose in such a sort period of time? what am i doing that is driving away all my friends? should i change myself? please help!!! ill tell u everything that happened!!

don't change yourself. they are obviously really sucky friends. the kind of friends you want are the kind who are honest, forgiving and dont care how you eat your chicken! my advice is to can these people who you call "friends" and get a new group..that may sound really tough after you've been in this group for so long..but i did it in 8th grade. i had a group of friends (about 6) and there was kinda a leader of the group (nina) and she would cause fights about the stupidist things and i got sick of it so i told her off and none of my so-called "friends" would back me off so i told them to never talk to me again and i left. now i had always been friendly with another group of people but not best friends(like i thought i had been with nina) so i went into that group and they were the funniest, nicest, people EVER! and they are now my best friends because they know exactly how i feel. and i have never been happier!!!!!!!!!! hope i helped!
~Candace

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(Rating: 5) yea i think that the problems acctually started when i mad more friends. plus we dont have anyclasses together anymore i hope and i wount see them so hopefully ill leave this all in my past
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