Hey! Our names are Alex and Adriana. We are both 18 years old and live in Texas. We are best friends and are currently living together. Each one of us has been through a lot and have overcome many obstacles in our lives. We hope we can help you get through any problem(s) you might have or give you some suggestions on how to solve your problem(s). Just remember the best thing you can do in any situation is follow your heart
Website: Alex and Adriana
Gender: Female
Location: USA
Occupation: student
Age: 18
Member Since: June 24, 2005
Answers: 53
Last Update: July 21, 2005
Visitors: 5225
Main Categories:
Love Life
Families
General Sex Questions
View All
|
| |
|
I'm a pretty social person, but everytime I want to plan some time to hang out with one of my friends my parents always interfer.They hardly ever let people come to our house because they claim it's messy when all they gotta do is clean it up! Today I wanted to sleep-over my friends house and my parents wouldnt let me go because it was raining, but it wasn't even raining hard!! Everywhere I go, I'm questioned.One time, I wanted to ride my bike around the block and my parents made me come back in 10 minutes when it was only 6:00..They make me so mad!! It's hard for me to show them I'm responsible because they baby me with how they are overprotective and I'm just so pissed off right now!!I want them outta of my bussiness!! Please help!! How do I get them to stop buggin me and let me be able to do stuff with my friends? (link)
| |
Judging by all your exclamation points you are pretty angry. Calm down, relax, give yourself a facial and bubble bath...do not worry, they cannot baby you forever. First, start by preparing yourself for any excuse they might give you such as "the house is not clean enough". Think about when you want people, or a friend, over and give yourself enough time to clean the house until it shines. That way they will not have the excuse "the house is a mess". If they say that just stare at them and say "Excuse me? I just cleaned." Then make sure the weather is good outside. As soon as you ask them say "The house is clean and the weather is fine so can I have a friend over please. I would really appreciate it." Or maybe try making them feel sorry for you. Put on a sad face and tell your mom how lonely you are because you cannot hang out with your friends since she will not let them come over to the house and she will not let you go over there. Or if you want to spend the night somewhere offer to give your mom the name and number of the person's house that you are spending the night at. They are just overprotective because they care for you a lot. That is way better than having parents that do not care for their children at all. Believe me though it still totally sucks, I know. Maybe you need to sit down and have a talk with them about letting you grow up and giving you more responsibility instead of baby you all the time. Ask them "How am I suppose to make it in the real world if I have parents that baby me and will not let me grow up?" Goodluck with your parents. I hope they understand you.
|
|
Rating: 5
| |
Thanks a million! I totally agree with everything you said!
|
|