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Q: well i met my best friend cici this year and we were like unseperatable and we always had the best times together. but there was this girl who doesnt like me and never really did and she was my cicis friend. her name was emily. everytime i went to talk to cici emily would like roll her eyes. and if she was talking to cici at that time and i went up she would leave or say something and interupt. emily was always trying to be best friends with cici and now they are best friends! and cici like whenever we are together she tells me that we should hang out more cause she misses me and its all emilys fault that we never hang out cause she always wants to do sometime with cici. and cici is like tired of her cause she is constently trying to get her attention. what do i do. do i tell cici that i miss her and im tired of emily always trying to take her away or what?

im sorry this is long but i need help i really do.
i think you most deffinitley should talk to cici.

afterall, if she has been expressing to you how much she misses hanging out with you and how this girl emily is getting on her nerves, then obviously she is not as happy having emily as her best friend.

it sounds like you and cici have a really great friendship, and you dont want this to be ruined on a girl who would love nothing more then for your friendship with cici to be destroyed.
by giving into this, you're giving emily exactly what she wants.

but you should talk to cici. trust me. i was in a similar situation and i was so crushed by it that i just didn't do anything about it and now me and my old best friend havn't talked in about a year. if i had said something sooner we would probably still be friends. so you should really talk to her before it becomes too late.

thankyou your advice was so much better than alot i got. so once again thanx!

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