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I'm 15/f he's 17/m.
This is kind of long, but I can't stop thinking about him. He leads me on all the time, and I fall for it all the time. He loves it when I play with him too. So at this point, we both like eachother a lot.. we tell everyone that we like eachother. But we won't hook up. I dont know his reason, but I know mine. When we first met, he cheated on his girlfriend.. with me. But when that happened, he told me he was single, so he lied to me. That made me think, a lot. If we were ever to hook up, would there be another chick he lures in and lies to for a little fun behind MY back?

What my question is since you know the story: What should I do about him? Should I try to persue something more, or should I keep on the level we're on right now: friends with some benifets? Advice? :)

Friends with benefits just gives away something that should be somewhat sacred. You are 15!!! I didn't even know about this stuff at your age. Save benefits for a REAL boyfriend! Let that one go. The rule of thumb is if he did it to her, he'll do it to you - mostly because you will expect it since it already happened. How about just keep it in your pants and leave your relationship at friends WITHOUT BENEFITS!!! Don't sell yourself out! Because if he can get it like that - he'll never wanna give you more - why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free!!!

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(Rating: 5) thanks for the answer, but to clear what you may think, I am a virgin. :)
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