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my sister has been going out with this guy mike for longer thn a year and my whole family has loved him like a son/brother ect. but my stupid sister broke up with him for this druggie that our whole family despises. I know mike still loves her. I really don't want this Chris guy over at my house everyday. i was happy with mike. what should i do? i'll rate 5's for anyone who doesn't say it's your sisters life and let her do whatever she wants cuz i kno this guy is so wrong for her or anybody else. please help. (link)
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Well, besides the fact that it is ultimately her decision, you should ask her why she made this decision.
Second, keep in touch with Mike, and be friends with him. I'm not saying go out with him, I'm saying keep him around and in your sister's scope of view.
If this Chris guy is a dirt bag like you say, it'll only be a matter of time. Then again, if your sister is the kind of girl who goes for guys like this, you need to let her be herself. I know you want what's best for her, but what IS best for her is making up her own mind and learning from her own experience when needed. And it seems that that's what's needed in this case.
Oh, and don't threaten low feedback. It only shows how incapable of facing the truth you are. Fulfilling your threat only prooves that you lack wisdom and are thick-skulled - something your sister has shown she suffers from.
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