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Member Since: June 21, 2005
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This is gonna be long but I need help..

So me and my boyfriend were totally in love.. But then he cheated on me with another girl, he made out with her for like an hour. AND he was the one that came onto her. I broke up with him, and was totally heartbroken because I still love him... So then I saw him, and he apoligized, saying, "I`m so sorry, You are perfect, I only want you, that kiss from her meant nothing, I love you so much and I`m so sorry.." And so now I`m going back out with him.. But the thing is, I`m not sure. I still love him, but I can`t trust him.. And things are just kind of awkward now. I have no idea what to do.. Please help, I rate high !! (link)
He's using you, most likely. Image, ego, sexual interaction, feeling good... whatever his reason, he's using you.

You can't go come on to someone, make out with them, have that as your only explaination, and mean it. There are times when given certain explainations it would be iffy, at best, but if you two had established that you were in a committed relationship, then yeh. You shouldn't bother with him. At least not until he gets his act together and can give you a reason of substance.


Rating: 5
thank you for the reality check =) much love




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