Member Since: June 21, 2005
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Last Update: August 12, 2005
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Ok so here is my problem i have a really low self eestem i sould nt cause i hear that i am pretty alought and tons of people like me [cheak our my advice column to see pic] but my self- eestem is still really low i hate the way i look and i am never happy i feel like i can't so anyhting right and everything i do i screw up. please help me.
Reality. (link)
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I haven't been on here long, but I can't seem to figure out how to view your colum (I can't figure out how to find out who you are/your username).
Anyway, self-esteem/self-confidence/self-image is a hard one to build because it takes itself in order to build itself (if that makes any sense, then you're smart, too... are you 18+? Single? Oh, wait... I shouldn't be doing that ;-p). It's also something I've struggled with.
One of the things to do is to just forget about trying to be invisible and make moves - go talk to people, raise your hand (figuritively speaking, unless you're in class, of course), ask questions, and give answers.
Also, don't worry about the people around you - they will take care of themselves. Do what you are going to do (use wisdom, don't just jump off bridges) regardless of who's watching (again, within reason - don't undress in public or anything like that, though I'm sure you'd draw a crowd if you did).
When you make mistakes, take time to think about what went wrong, and try again. And again. And again. If that's an option. And when you succede, you will be able to succede more, and as you succede more, your self-confidence will increase, as will you self-image, and your self-esteem.
EDIT: So I just realized your usename was reality... stupid me ^^;;
You /are/ hot. And you seem to be good with advice.
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thanx lol but dont know yo really helped anyway we sould talk more.
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