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Okay so I'm going out with this guy. He cheated on me with my "friend" at a party, and I found out. The thing is, I don`t think he would have told me if I hadn`t found out. I still love him so much, but nothing can ever happen between us because of what he did. He has apoligized and I`ve just been really mean to him. What the hell do I do???????
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You break up with him. And I'm not trying to sound harsh here, that's the truth.
You love him, but you're being mean to him - is that what you want? Think about what is best for the two of you, not for the relationship.
And just because you two separate now, it doesn't mean you can't get back together. Besides, if you two aren't together, he will be able to be himself without regard to your relationship, and you can see whether he really wants to be with you or not. And, what I've found in my own experiences, people grow a lot more as people outside of relationships than in them, let alone in "soured" relationships.
So tell him you love him, but that you think that it's best if you two stop dating. If you want to leave the option open to get back together later on, tell him that.
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