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Q: okay, so ever since i came to my school, in second grade, this girl, we'll call her "teresa" has been my best friend. we could like write a book about eachother. sometimes i think she noes me better than i noe myself. haha! but, the thing is that ther were a whole bunch of new kids this year. one of them we'll call "melanie" and the other we'll call "claire". when melanie came into school, teresita was being her friendly self and started greeting all of the new kids and introducing herself etc, etc. so her and melanie supposedly become really close. oh, she can have a friend! but i couldnt make friends w/ another one of the new kids, which is claire. so, teresa, knowing that melanie calls me a bitch and kinda bullies me around. i mean, my gosh, she's a real bitch! but i mean, gosh, sumtimes i dont think i realize how much shit i take in from a lot people. im too nice to those those people. but thats just the way i am. the only way i can really blow my top is by writing here. i hardly ever get this way w/ people cuz im too shy to tell them off. but i put my foot down. im not taking crap from those people anymore! so, i tell teresa, right? i tell her that i'm sorry. but i cant be friends w/ sum1 thats friends w/ her b/c she is a serious bully. i mean, we've even had to talk 2 the principal about it b/c the girl is out of control! she thinks that she's hot stuff, and shes not even close to it! and its silly, at my age, it really is. im 14 yrs old and i just think that its really silly that i hav 2 talk 2 the principal @ this stage! but, the thing is that the school has its own network and its like my school e-mail. and she's sending horrible e-mails during school hours! so... yeah. it had to "be brought to the attention of authority" haha! anyways. and she IM's me such mean things, that i had to block her! and teresa is like nothing. hanging out w/ her, laughing. and everyone is accusing me of ditching her and hanging out w/ claire. just b/c teresa decides to go w/ a girl that cant stand my guts. i dont know how to explain this to her! people even told me that i had to choose between them and claire b/c they dont like claire. but u noe, its really stupid. b/c sum1 that i thot was a true friend, look wat she did to me, and this girl is just sum1 to hang out w/ since my friend ditched me! its like she's on her side. thats so unfair! i've always been ther for her! why duz she like melanie so much if she's that way w/ me? its really just annoying. please let me know what you think. i rate high!
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I can't tell you what 'teresa' sees in 'melanie' but I can tell you what I've learned when I was in high school, and it's not a glamorous fairy tale.
People change, ESPECIALLY your friends. Some change for better, some only mildly change, and some change for the worse. I can't tell you the number of times I've pondered in confusion why someone chose the option they did, you'll see a lot more people make stupid choices as you continue through school.
You've talked to 'teresa', right? She has done nothing to help your situation, right? Sounds to me like she likes 'melanie' more.
I've witnessed a similar situation where the 'melanie' was actually just jealous of the girl she was bullying. In that case 'melanie' wanted to be best friends with 'teresa' and take 'teresa's' current bud out of the picture.
Well things are clear 'Melanie' doesn't want to sort things out, and if 'teresa' isn't helping, I suggest you move on. There'll be tough times, but things always get better after awhile.
So in a way, you have to choose but if 'teresa' isn't helping then I think it is safe to say that you don't have a choice.
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I've been building programs and web sites since I was 12, but don't think I'm an expert! I may be technology advanced but I'm far from G33k!
I'd like to say I have common sense, but that is for you to decide!
I'll do everything I can to help, and I am not afraid to tell anyone when I am not capable of answering your question; so you have no need to worry about me BSing my wisdom.
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Website: Gender: Female Location: Oklahoma Occupation: Computer Programmer and Beauty Advisor Age: 19 Member Since: June 14, 2005 Answers: 76 Last Update: September 28, 2005 Visitors: 6931
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