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okay, so ever since i came to my school, in second grade, this girl, we'll call her "teresa" has been my best friend. we could like write a book about eachother. sometimes i think she noes me better than i noe myself. haha! but, the thing is that ther were a whole bunch of new kids this year. one of them we'll call "melanie" and the other we'll call "claire". when melanie came into school, teresita was being her friendly self and started greeting all of the new kids and introducing herself etc, etc. so her and melanie supposedly become really close. oh, she can have a friend! but i couldnt make friends w/ another one of the new kids, which is claire. so, teresa, knowing that melanie calls me a bitch and kinda bullies me around. i mean, my gosh, she's a real bitch! but i mean, gosh, sumtimes i dont think i realize how much shit i take in from a lot people. im too nice to those those people. but thats just the way i am. the only way i can really blow my top is by writing here. i hardly ever get this way w/ people cuz im too shy to tell them off. but i put my foot down. im not taking crap from those people anymore! so, i tell teresa, right? i tell her that i'm sorry. but i cant be friends w/ sum1 thats friends w/ her b/c she is a serious bully. i mean, we've even had to talk 2 the principal about it b/c the girl is out of control! she thinks that she's hot stuff, and shes not even close to it! and its silly, at my age, it really is. im 14 yrs old and i just think that its really silly that i hav 2 talk 2 the principal @ this stage! but, the thing is that the school has its own network and its like my school e-mail. and she's sending horrible e-mails during school hours! so... yeah. it had to "be brought to the attention of authority" haha! anyways. and she IM's me such mean things, that i had to block her! and teresa is like nothing. hanging out w/ her, laughing. and everyone is accusing me of ditching her and hanging out w/ claire. just b/c teresa decides to go w/ a girl that cant stand my guts. i dont know how to explain this to her! people even told me that i had to choose between them and claire b/c they dont like claire. but u noe, its really stupid. b/c sum1 that i thot was a true friend, look wat she did to me, and this girl is just sum1 to hang out w/ since my friend ditched me! its like she's on her side. thats so unfair! i've always been ther for her! why duz she like melanie so much if she's that way w/ me? its really just annoying. please let me know what you think. i rate high!

Well honey, it's called growing up and when people grow up they lose old friends and gain new friends. Now you may not see what Teresa sees in Melanie but she likes her. I don't think it was really right for you to not be friends with her anymore cuz of Melanie, you can't let one person affect your relationships with others. I think you need to get a restraining order from this Melanie if she really is harrassing you that badly. Peer pressure sucks hard ass and what other kids are saying about what's going between you, Claire, Teresa, and Melanie are just stupid so I would just ignore the comments. They have no right to tell you who you should be friends with, if they can't accept the friend you got then find others who do. Maybe it's time to let old friends go.

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(Rating: 5) thank you very much for your help =)
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