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i am a 16yr old girl, and i havent been in a relationship recently bc i was raped/abused by my ex. and honestly im afraid of being in a relationship because of the past. i know i shouldnt let that effect anything in the future, because its done and over with... but i cant help to think what happens if someone hurts me again like my ex? and i no not every one on this planet is a sick minded freak like my ex was... but i cant help to wonder. there are numerous guys who like me, including 2 of my ex/bfs, who treated me with so much respect... but there is another guy who does like me, and i guess i like him too... but hes not really my type... hes sort of a dork, and yeahh. i know that doesnt matter, what im getting at is, if i do choose any of these, how do i make sure they wont hurt me like my other ex, and who do i pick??

well I wouldnt go out with any of your ex b/fs close friends.. because theyve got to be soidve like him! guys seem real nice on the outside cuz they want to impress, but then you get to know them. You have to get to know eacho one of them, their interests and stuff! go on a date with each one and then you decide! I dont think you'll make a bad decision..

--emily

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(Rating: 4) thanks for ur time
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