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i am a 16yr old girl, and i havent been in a relationship recently bc i was raped/abused by my ex. and honestly im afraid of being in a relationship because of the past. i know i shouldnt let that effect anything in the future, because its done and over with... but i cant help to think what happens if someone hurts me again like my ex? and i no not every one on this planet is a sick minded freak like my ex was... but i cant help to wonder. there are numerous guys who like me, including 2 of my ex/bfs, who treated me with so much respect... but there is another guy who does like me, and i guess i like him too... but hes not really my type... hes sort of a dork, and yeahh. i know that doesnt matter, what im getting at is, if i do choose any of these, how do i make sure they wont hurt me like my other ex, and who do i pick??

well sweetie, truthfully i've been in a situation similer to yours. i know it hurts like hell but it will take a while to get over. as for these boiz, make sure you know them well enough. usually tha ones that will treat you the best are right in front of your eyes. but you have to look for them. maybe an old friend who's helped you with all your trouble. someone who's always been there. just follow your heart. and not every guy is a creep. there are the selected few. just live your life. you're still very young and a guy will come to you soon enough. hope i helped! take care.

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