Just your average nice girl next door. Married the love of my life at 24, widowed at 29.
I love cats and sailing and get to the beach as often as I can.
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Age: 39
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ok... so i know this is going to be one of the dumbest things you've ever heard... but... my best friend.. idk she doesnt make me feel very good.. she does things that cause me to cut myself.. and she steps all over me.. i bend over backwards to try and make sure she's happy and everything.... but she just doesnt seem to appreciate me.. i'm a really pure hearted girl.. and it's gotten to the point where she could slap me and say she hated me and i'd still love her.. kinda like when you hear about those guys that beat there wives and they stick arond and dont rat on there husbands.. i know its dumb.. but idk... im not happy in life... she's made me weak and insecure... she swore she hated this girl amanda....those two hated eachother for the longest time... and now its like nothing happened and they're best friends again.... i hate it.. and all of my friends say to just forget my bf because she isn't worth it.. but no one understands how hard that is for me..... i know i shouldnt stick around... but gosh.. its so dang confusing.. please help me anyone!
5's to anyone that helps...... :'( (link)
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honey! she is NOT your friend!!! True friends would never ever treat you that way. Friends are loving and caring and supportive. I know this... i stuck with a "friend" that constantly put me down and embarrassed me for years (from ages 12 to 28!). Close the book on her and if she asks why, just say that it's time for you to start a new chapter in your life. If she keeps bugging you say the exact same line over and over. Don't take her calls anymore, and don't reply to any messages. You are better than that - and you don't treat people that way, don't let them do that to you!
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just wanted to say thanks for your advice... your right.. she isn't my friend... there are so many other people that care about me.. i need to just learn to stand up for myself, thanks for making me realize this. XoXo
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