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My name is CC well that my nickname. I am in my mid 20's and i have been though so much in my short life marriage, divorce, taking care of a child, moving, dropping out of school, doing drugs, living with family that use bad drugs, jail, boyfriend hitting you, and the list keeps going but the one thing that is different from me and most people is they don't no how to get past it or get to the point were it dose not bother them, and that's why i am here to help you because the things i have been though i have come out strong and there are a lot of you that are going though them now and want help and you no as well as anyone else you can't take advice from someone who has never been there because they don't no what it feels like
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Im going to the beach this month, and I have no confidence when it comes to wearing a bikini. I'm pretty skinny everywhere else except my waistline. (I have really huge love handles that are unproportional to the rest of me.) I've been trying to lose it before this summer, but not seen any progress. Im also uncomfortable wearing bikini bottoms for some reason, I know im weird. So i bought some girl swim shorts that go to my knees (like surf shorts.) Do you think that would look stupid for me to wear those and a small tee or tank top when im swimming? (link)
i think you should always were what is most comfortable for you who care what anyone else think the only person you really need to please is your self what i would do is try on the outfit look at your self and see what you think if you don't think it looks good then try something else i have big love handles to and don't really like my tummy either so what i do is were a one piece or a shit and take it off before i get in the water they also have the shorts for bottom but like i said go with what you think looks best you will be more comfortable and happier. wish you the best of luck and hope everything works out cc


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when you wrote "what i do is were a one piece or a shit" i almost died laughing. it really helped me to feel better! thanks for the answer!




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