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Q: i am 20 and preganat with my second child judt told my boyfriend i am pregnant last night and he told me to get a abortion what do you think about that? when i was fertile i told him i was and not to cum in me but as you can tell he did it anyway and i asked him are you sure about what you doing he said yeah. do you think i should break up with him cause he doesn't want to face up to his responsibilty? then on top of that right after my son turned two his mom had a bad stroke and now she is in the nursing home and he doesn't go see her and he said he doesn't because he doesnt like seeing her like that dont you believe that is wrong? i just started going to see her just me and my son and i told her i am pregnant and everything is okay she is going to do fine and i will visit her more often. the real problem is i think my boyfriend is cheatin i ask him and he says no and ask ,me to put hickies on his necks but i foumd his boxers and it looked like he had sex with someone on thet period i am gon ask him about it do you tthink i am wrong for qestiong him about his where abouts and other things? or does that sound like ii am insecure because he has cheated on me in the past and i aint trynna catch nothin.do you think havin a friendly conversation with the opposite sex is cheatin? if you can please answer these questions and have a nice day thanks once again
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he just gets me mad. I really don't think that his oppion should go into the birth or abortion of your second child. I do beleave that he is cheating on you, has done it in the past and from what I hear he's not treating you like a father of your child and boyfriend should treat you. I do not think he is goood for you and your baby.
And not once did you mention that you had feelings for him. As far as I think, I think you shoudl break it off with this guy. Do it before it affects your baby.
I really think that you have every right to question where he is and why he has blood on his boxers. You need to question him and what his doing. What if you do get an STD from him?! Hes not worth that risk.
And no I do not think that a friendly converation with the opposite sex is is cheating. We do it every day we talk to our boos or co-workers (or in my case fellow students).
And for one last thought I do think that it is meen that he doesn't want to see his mother like that. But it does make sence, I do think it is nice that you are visting her and I think it would be nice to keep on doing so. But really this is not your problem.
Hope this cleared youe mind
~kooka
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it did ease my mind he said the satin came from him sweating and when he used the bathroom and i did get a std check i am negative and i told him if he feel he wanna be a hoe do it with someone else my time is to valuable and i have kids by you and you need yto start acting like it he took me and my son shoppimg today adn say i am fine he talk to his dad and i should keep the baby
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bio
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I am a 14 year old girl in a big city. I live off other peoples drama so i end up giving alot of advice. Love vargas girls, knitting and many other things. Feel free to write me any time at kooka_burra@hotmail.com
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: Toronto Occupation: student Age: 14 Member Since: December 5, 2004 Answers: 114 Last Update: February 21, 2006 Visitors: 12163
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