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ok.. so right.. i have a .. well i guess a friend. you see we've been dating on and off for a year. i cheated on him once but he understood because i was going through a lot and i was just confused with everything. about 2 or 3 months ago he cheated on me and it hurt really bad.. now we've recently started talking again and he's always saying how much he loves me etc. etc. he doesn't want to date right now because i am under major grounding and i understand and it's ok. but all i ever hear from neone is that i can't be concerned about where he is or what he's doing or whatever because i'm not his girl anymore. true as it is it's wayy harsh and hurts really bad.. i'm just wayy confused and i'm not quite sure what to do. part of me wants to stay with him.. he was my first love an i really do love him. but another part of me is like.. well if i move on i could find someone else who would make me extremly happy.. or i could be even more miserable because im not with him and i'm soo confused. he used to put me down a lot.. talk about like how i wasn't bi i just said i was.. and he once made me lie about being his girl because one of his friends hated me.. so i mean he's gotten loads better but we do fight all the time and it's wayy hard and i mean.. i just don't know what to do.. i'm not happy and i don't know what to do to make myself happy and you have no idea how much he loves me.. he really does and he's trying to get better with the fighting.. i just don't know what to do.. please help.
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okay - here's the deal -
if both of you have cheated then you're obviously not satisfied with eachother .. and if you're not happy, you need to seriously consider breaking up + or just do it +
It sounds like both of you aren't really in love, and you're more in it for well, having the security of being in a couple. i hope i've helped, but this is a fragile situation, it requires a lot of thought. good luck!
♥ casey
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thanx for trying to helpp
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