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Q: Okay,so me and this guy have been together for about 10 months, and he is completely faithful to me, like he doesn't even talk to other girls hardly ever, and he never hangs out with any other girls but me. But the other night he went to a party last minute and was completely wasted, and girls showed up and one locked him into a bedroom with her and started coming onto him, they ended up having sex. I found out about this a few days later, and he completely regrets it and he siad he had really no clue what was really going on that it went fast. we broke up, but we sitll talks and he says he wants nothing more than to be with me.. and like hes not even that kind of guy.he's not forceful, aggressive, or anything in that naturee if u know what i mean? and i mean we really had something speciall and i dont know what to do.. just let him go or try and makes thigns work? what do u think

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That same EXACT thing happened to me. You're hurt, but theres nothing you can really do about the pain. I would try to fix things with him. He didnt mean to do it.

I forgave my boyfriend and we are even better than before.

If you and your boyfriend can get through something like that, then you two are very strong people and deserve to be together.

Thank you so much

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