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I normally do not ask questions about guys on this site, but I just have no clue what to do.
My situation is that my boyfriend went out with this girl from his camp last year (they broke up b/c they wouldn't see eachother for a whole year). Well, this year he is going back to camp (she is too), and the camp holds a hotdog/hamburger barbeque thing where everyone pretty much has a date (although it's not neccasary to have a date, but everyone does have one). He asked me if he could go with this girl from last year. He told me that he "sort of" wanted to go with her (I'm guessing this is my language for "I want to go with her but I don't want to seem to eager about it b/c it will probably make you mad"). My problem is that I am afraid he is going to start liking her again, and I won't be able to do anything about it (after all, I will be miles away; I won't be able to stop them flirting or anything). I am just scared of losing this great guy.
My question is- am I being jealous and should I let him go with this girl to the barbeque? Or do I have a good reason to be worried?
Thanks I appreciate any answers!
Hey hun, I'm going to be completely honest with you. You need to talk to him about this because it could grow into a major problem. It's okay for you to be jealous because it's really not fair what he's doing to you. He's YOUR boyfriend, not this other girl's therefore he shouldn't be trying to bring her along as his date. If I were you, I would let him go to test his trust. Tell him he can go with her but only as friends. If it turns into anything more when he gets back, tell him he's going to have to make a decisian because it's not fair for you to have to deal with this. Tell him how much he means to you (guys like to feel needed & loved), & that you really don't want to loose him but if he would preffer to be with her then so be it. Once you say that, he'll think about it & realize he only sees her during camp & that you're the #1 girl in his life. Good luck! ♥
(Rating: 5) Wow thanks...you really helped me. I wish I could rate you higher! I'm going to do what you said, because I think that what you said would be the right thing to do. Thanks!