Crystal49's advice column

Hi, im 15/f and ive never made out or been sexually active in any way whatsoever! Uhm the thing is that im scared to do anything that involved being sexually active because the hair down there(dont give me any hair removal method, il breakout in red bumps and i have no money to buy anything or get it waved) is really sparse and grows beyond my underwear, and my inner lips hang out noticebly longer than in outer lips. i think this might really freak a guy out because this is really ugly. Plus, im hardly a small A-cup. My 'breasts' are no bigger than a guys, seriosly, and even really small breast people are bigger than me, ive seen their boobs. i really want to get sexually active cuz everyone is always like ooh makeout with him but i dont know how. im not sure what to do and i feel really bad because i guess noone else i knows has this problem and i dont wanna tell neone, its pretty embarasing. wut should i do?!

First of all, let's get one thing straight: Making-Out isn't considered 'being sexually active'. To be sexually active you actually have to participate in some form of sexual intercourse.

Secondly, I'd just like to say that 15 is pretty young to be thinking about becoming sexually active, but I guess the age level is getting lower and lower all the time.

If you intend to become sexually active I really don't think you need to worry so much about the appearance. Everyone is different. Hopefully any guy you are with will understand that. The pubic hair probably wont be that big of an issue unless you want to give oral sex a try.
I hate to say it, but it's true: guys usually don't pay much attention to the things you described. They're much more into the fact that they're getting some.

I wish I could offer you more advice.

Good Luck!

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(Rating: 5) youre a really good advice giver and you made me feel better, thanx

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