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I am in love with this guy. He is my ex-boyfriend and he broke up with me for reasons that no longer exist. Well, I love him and he's in love with this girl. She's in love with someone else and is in a serious relationship with him. My ex is really unhappy. He helps those two see each other as often as they can and he takes the noble way. He told her that he loved her and she ran away. In fact, he's only told two people "I love you" and they both have run away. He has this large void that needs filled. His mother is dead. And his father doesn't see him. He lives with his Aunt and Uncle. I wish there was something I could do to make him happy. He knows I love him and that I'll always be there for him. He just doesn't love me. I'm not trying to get him to love me, I just wish there was something I could do to make him happy. His happiness is the most important thing to me. He poured his soul out to me last night and we cried together for two hours. I know he likes me. I mean what guy stares at the front door when you go inside for an extra few minutes and doesn't care about you. Everyone also thinks he's using me. I don't think he is because he still has some feelings for me. I mean we hit 2nd base last weekend (my first time) and we made out a lot. I want to know where do I go from here. I wish I could fill that void in his life because I would do anything for him. Is there someway that I could help him get this girl to love him or for him to get over her? What can I do to help?

This guy is the first of many. If you don't understand that people come in and out of your life very easily- then life will be hard. You should take your friends advice, they are most often the ones that see what you don't - "ie. him using you." It sounds like you are having trouble drawing a line between lust and friendship. You can care about him, but if he doesn't treat you well, which it looks like he doesn't, then 2nd base means nothing. Get out of there girl he is not doing anything good for you.

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(Rating: 4) I'm not trying to get with him. I love him way to much to have that as the only thing on my mind. And I really can't just leave now, I mean I promised him I'd always be there for him. And his whole life no one has ever kept that promise. I plan to for the last year that I can.
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