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This guy who's friends with my ex really likes me. I told him I just think of him as a friend. He calls all the damn time and whenever i do pick up, he tells me, "Hey i was going to come over to your house today." Practically inviting himself over...i thought...wow..so i have no say in it at all
I told him i was stepping out and hung up.
But later on he called 8 times and the next day he showed up at my house, looking for me (so my brother tells me) while i wasn't home.
This has been going on for a week now.
The constant calling and coming over to see me and leaving me messages on the machine about wanting to "spend time with me" and "date me"
IT NEVER ENDS!!! I was wondering what anyone else thinks i can do. Anything that means he'll go away!!!

You know hopefully he is not the kind of guy that is really sensetive.. because I think you should just tell him to leave you alone.

really that's what i would do.

but say it nicley cuz you don't want him doing anything crazy. really people do crazy things to them selves when they can't have something or someone.

break it to him nicely and maybe just maybe you guys can hang out. you know as friends.

think about that.

hopefull my advice is worth wild.

xoxo

i'll pray.

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(Rating: 5) thanks ill try that
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