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ok to set the pic i am 13/f and he is 16/m. ok so on to my problem: this kid, lets call him john. well anyways i really like john, but he doesnt like mein that way. he used to be my bros bff, but now we pretty close. wheni was younger i used to like him, and he liked me, but we were too young. well anyways the thing is, i asked him is he liked me nad he was like no,i like this other girl in my grade and i am gonna ask her out. i said oh ok. they just broke up today, and idk if i shopuld tell him how i feel. like i dont want our friendship to change but i really want tolet him know. please help i need to know what to do. also should i ask him how he sees me, i havent seen him in like a month but we always talk on im. so please help
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confused about *him*
Well first let me say I do think that you should tell him, if you want him you should go get him. But I think that you should give him a little time after his break-up. If he really liked this girl he will be a little broken up and you in his face about how you feel about him won't help him any, and he might do or say something that he might regret in the long run. Don't just drop it on him though. Tell him with a little suttlety. And like I told you wait a while because you don't want to his rebound girl and end up the one with your feelings hurt. Wait like 2 or 3 weeks and tell him how you feel.
(Rating: 4) thx!