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My name is Kayla and I live in Houston, Texas. O.K, I have known this guy for about three years. He is a total gentleman. By the way, I'm 13 and so is he. We were born on the same day. He has some sort of autism that causes him to act younger. People at school don't respect him. He has crushed on me ever since fifth grade and now, we're in seventh and he still has this crush. He has asked me out several times and I JUST DON'T KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO NOT HURT HIS FEELINGS. He likes that "Pokemon" show on WB kids and he's obsessed with "Yugi-oh" and he's just... weird. He's really sweet though. His mom just passed away on Friday the thirteenth and he's really depressed. I called his mom Aunt Paula and he called my mom Aunt Leanne. I love him and all... but not the way he loves me. He's more like... my cousin/brother. Not a boyfriend. I told him I would LOVE to be his friend but I'm not ready for this kind of relationship. A long time ago, he told me he had a dream about me. I asked him what it was about. He got all shy and red in the face and he smiled, showing his braces. Then, I said "O.K, you tell my sister and my sister will tell me." my sister was only 9 at the time. He whispered it in her ear and ran away. My sister Brittany told me and he said his dream about me... naked... making out with him. So, I stopped talking to him for a while because he said he would make a move on me. I was really scared to be alone with him. A few months later, he told me he stopped having those dreams and he was sorry that it scared me so I forgave him and we were friends again. He asked me out again and I told him "No. I only like you as a friend." and he started CRYING!!! He's like a cousin to me but not like that. I really don't know what to say. I rate good answers and will email anybody who wants me to. Please help me!
~~~Luv, Kayla

Dang i know almost ecally what its like well this guy has liked me for along time now too and his parents got divorced and i think or what i relize now is that when that happend he just really needed someone to talk to and be friends with and like your guy his mom just died and he needs someone to talk to someone to love i guess you could put it that way and about him asking you out thats just he thinks your pretty he really likes you as a friend too and he wants to be your boyfriend so that he knows someones there to love him if you kind of know what i mean. When he ask you out and you say no over and over again i get that part same thing happend here to and evtully he got over me and now where just friends so maybe you should just talk to him and tell me like how this works out what ever u can email me at legallybrunette@bellsouth.net or aim me at pinknprettychick if you want to talk about it more. hope i helped
Sarah

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