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Im a 20yr old female.
Me and my b/f have been going out for 2months and we were really serious. Well he came over every day for the time we were together and we started to fight alot recently. So he didnt know what to do. So he decided we should take a break from each other. That means not seeing me everyday or talking on the phone with me that much. Well we really love each other and we both think we are the one for each other. But the days that im away from him i become so depressed and just cry all day and i cant stop and i feel so sad. He tells me hes sad to and he only wants to do this time apart to work things out cause he really wants to be with me.My question is, how do i stop feeling so sad and how can i make my self not think about it while hes away? how do i make it to where he choose to get back together faster without me asking him to. Is there somthing i can do to get him back faster? (link)
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Dear Miss Sad,
Relationships are not easy. If they were, everyone would have one. The question you have to ask yourself is that is this guy "the one?" If he is, then realize arguments are going to happen. Don't look at them as a bad thing. Look at them as a way to constantly make your relationship stronger. If you two really love each other and want to be together, then think how fun it is to make up everytime. Think of your arguments as a new way to constantly check on your relationship. People break up for dumb reasons without realizing that as long as the love is there they should not let the little things come between them. Don't be one of those couples.
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Thanks that really made me feel alot better, i do think hes the one, and being away from him is really hard but i think it may help us in the long run. But its been 3 days since ive seen him and im going to see him tomorrow and im very estatic. I know we will get back together but i just hate waiting...ya know. But theres nothing i can do to make it go by faster but, I know it will make me love him even more, i will be so happy to see him after not seeing him for so long. He would have came seen me sooner but, hes been working alot and he lives about 30mins away and hes been tired. Anyway..sorry i talk to much, thanks for helping me.
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